Bound Session Info
The Bound session is a transformative and artistic journey designed to explore themes of vulnerability, self-expression, and connection. Each session is a collaboration, centered on the interplay of light, texture, emotion, and the human form.
This is more than photography – it’s an opportunity to experience the art of rope in a safe, non-sexual environment, free from pressure or expectations. It’s a space to embrace stillness, let your guard down, and connect with yourself in a unique and profound way.
What is a Bound Session?
A Bound session is an intimate and bespoke experience combining the art of shibari with the craft of photography. Shibari, an ancient Japanese rope art, is approached here as a gentle and creative form of expression. These sessions are not sexual but inherently personal, creating a moment of calm and connection for clients in a fully respectful environment.
Every session begins with communication and trust. Your comfort, consent, and control are at the heart of this experience, ensuring a deeply personalised and supportive atmosphere.
What to Expect
1. Arrival and Atmosphere
You’ll be welcomed into a calming, softly lit space. We’ll begin with relaxed conversation to ease into the session, building a foundation of trust before moving forward.
2. Consent and Collaboration
Before any tying begins, we’ll go through a rope specific consent form together. This form is designed to ensure your safety, comfort, and understanding of the experience. It’s not binding, consent is fluid and can be changed or withdrawn at any time.
To further ensure a safe and transparent experience, the session will be audio recorded. This recording is strictly confidential and is solely for the protection of both parties. It will never be shared or used without your explicit consent.
During this discussion, we’ll cover:
- Your preferences and boundaries: What parts of your body you’re comfortable having tied.
- Medical history and safety considerations: Any injuries, conditions, or allergies that I should be aware of, as well as any history of fainting or panic attacks.
- Triggers and panic response preferences: If you have triggers or are prone to panic attacks, we’ll discuss how I can best support you, including ways to help prevent them and how to respond if they do arise. This could include offering reassurance, or holding you – whatever feels safest and most comforting for you. We’ll also address proactive measures, such as maintaining open communication, creating a calming environment, and ensuring you feel fully in control throughout the session.
- Understanding the process: We’ll review topics like nerve safety, circulation, the potential for marks, and the importance of communication during the session.
This step ensures we’re aligned in creating a safe and comfortable environment for you to explore the experience of rope.
3. The First Tie
We’ll begin with a simple tie: gently binding your hands together. This introductory step allows you to acclimate to the sensation of being tied while maintaining a sense of safety and control.
If you feel comfortable, we’ll proceed to secure your hands to your chest in a soft, protective position. During this process, I will check in regularly to ensure you are feeling safe, comfortable, and willing to continue.
At any time, you can let me know if you wish to stop. Your comfort and control are paramount.
5. The Session
Over the course of the session, we may explore 2-3 different ties, with opportunities for outfit changes to add variety to the photos. Each tie will be delicately applied and is designed to highlight the beauty of your form in a way that feels authentic to you.
5. Safety and Communication
Throughout the session, I will check in regularly to ensure you’re comfortable. If at any point you feel anxious or wish to stop, I will untie you or cut the ropes immediately to prioritise your safety and well-being.
Why Choose a Bound Session?
- Artistic Expression: Explore the beauty of your form in an safe and creative setting.
- Empowerment: Experience the unique sensation of being bound while remaining fully in control.
- Connection: Embrace a moment of stillness and self-awareness in a supportive environment.
- No Pressure or Expectations: Receive the experience of rope in a non-judgmental space where you can simply be, free from any external demands or pressures.
- Memorable Keepsakes: Take home a curated gallery of high-resolution images that capture the artistry of the experience.
Why Choose to Tie With Me?
Choosing to explore rope is a deeply personal decision, and who you choose to guide you through this experience matters. Here’s why I believe I’m the right person to create this journey with you:
- A Safe and Supportive Environment: Your comfort and safety are my top priorities. I’ll provide a calm, judgment-free space where you can fully relax and embrace the experience.
- No Pressure or Expectations: This is your session, and there are no demands placed on you. Every step is guided by your boundaries, preferences, and pace.
- Non-Sexual Experience: While shibari can be intimate, these sessions are focused solely on artistry and self-expression. This is not a sexual experience, and I approach every session with professionalism and respect.
- Caring and Gentle Approach: As a soft-natured, bisexual male, I bring a unique perspective and sensitivity to these sessions. My experiences have given me a deeper understanding of the pressures women often face, particularly from men.
- Understanding Through Experience: As a survivor of varying degrees of sexual assault, I have profound empathy for anyone navigating trust and vulnerability. This perspective helps me approach each session with unmatched care, understanding, and respect.
When you choose to tie with me, you’re choosing someone who prioritises your emotional and physical safety, honours your boundaries, and creates a space where you can let go and simply be.
Frequently Asked Questions
No. While shibari can be intimate, this session is purely about artistry, connection, and self-expression in a non-sexual environment.
That’s perfectly fine! Many clients are new to rope. I’ll guide you through every step, starting with simple, gentle ties to help you acclimate. My focus is on creating a safe and enjoyable experience for you, regardless of your familiarity with rope.
That’s completely okay. Every step is designed to help you feel at ease. You’re in full control, and nothing will proceed without your explicit comfort and consent.
Yes, you are more than welcome to bring a friend for support. However, I am only able to tie one person at a time, especially in any overly restrictive ties. This is because your safety is my top priority, and it’s essential that I focus solely on you without external distractions. Your friend can remain present and supportive throughout the session.
These sessions are for individuals who want to experience being bound by rope in a non-sexual, artistic setting. Whether you’re seeking to see yourself in a new light, create a timeless piece of art, give a meaningful gift, or simply explore a unique experience rarely offered, these sessions are crafted to honor your vision and boundaries.
No. Suspension is inherently dangerous and carries a significant risk of nerve damage and other complications if not performed with specialised training and equipment. I am not trained in rope suspension and cannot provide a safe environment for this practice. Your safety is paramount, and I will not overstep my risk profile to include suspensions.
It’s important to wear form-fitting clothing for your Bound session, as loose or bulky clothing can interfere with the tying process. You have several options depending on your comfort and vision for the session:
- Activewear: Comfortable and practical, activewear is a great option for those who want to focus on the experience without worrying about wardrobe.
- Lingerie: A popular choice for those looking to highlight the artistic interplay of rope with the body. Please note that underwires in lingerie can interfere with ropes, potentially causing additional pressure and discomfort. Wire-free lingerie is often more comfortable, but if you have a specific outfit in mind, I can work around the underwire where possible to ensure your comfort.
- Nude: For clients comfortable with this option, nude sessions offer a raw and intimate expression of the art form.
Ultimately, your wardrobe should reflect your personal style and comfort level. If you’re unsure, feel free to bring multiple options, and you can decide during the session what feels right to you.
Absolutely. Consent is fluid, and you are in control at all times. If at any point you wish to stop, pause, or adjust the session, you only need to let me know. Your comfort and safety are my top priorities.
If you decide during the session that you no longer want to continue with the Bound experience, we can seamlessly switch to a boudoir shoot or another style of photography. This ensures you still leave with a beautiful gallery of images that capture your unique essence and vision.
The sensation of being tied varies for everyone, but it should not be painful. Some ties may create a feeling of pressure or tightness, but discomfort is never the goal. We’ll communicate throughout the session to ensure everything feels right for you.
Yes. Due to the nature of these sessions, clients must be 18 years or older.
Investment
Bound sessions cost $1,110 and includes:
•A pre-session consultation to understand your vision.
•A two to three hour guided experience with up to three ties and outfit changes.
•A full (20-30 image) curated gallery of professionally edited high-resolution images.
The value of this session lies in the experience itself – the opportunity to try something new, explore self-expression, and create art in a safe and respectful space.
Want to Find Out More?
If you’d like to learn more about the my Bound sessions, simply leave your details below. I’ll get in touch with you personally to discuss your vision, answer your questions, and help you take the first step toward this unique experience.